I had thirty three family and friends over for Thanksgiving. My Dad and my baby brother were gracious enough to provide a catered three turkey, one ham, and all of the sides you could imagine for a Thanksgiving feast. My house was transformed into what felt like a restaurant thanks to my Mom and Aunt J. But what was really special about the gathering was the people around me. There is no better treatment than to have a room full of people who have provided me with the strength through their own actions and reactions to difficult situations life throws at you. These are the people, parents, brothers, cousins, Uncles, Aunts, In-laws, that have provided me with many lessons through example on how to rise above terrifying, devastating, difficult situations life throws at all of us. I like to call this strength in numbers. (I need to have this saying on my tattoo, along with humor and confidence) I think that the last time I had this much fun at a party was at my wedding.
Many of my guests traveled from very far away to be with me on Thanksgiving. I am so lucky and blessed to have an awesome, supportive, fun loving family. I want to thank each and everyone of your for making that trip.
My sister-in-law, Nikki, was kind enough to spend extra, much appreciated, time with all of us. Makes me wish she lived a lot closer. I could enjoy the conversation on a regular basis!
I have just received my second to last chemotherapy. I am approaching this treatment very differently. I am going to rest, for real, and will be receiving acupuncture on Friday to help combat the dreaded side effects. My least favorite of which is fatigue. Not being capable of getting out of bed is simply maddening. I will not let it happen this time! I will keep you all posted.
I hope everyone had as wonderful a Thanksgiving.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
What a Fabulous Thanksgiving
Posted by Sazum at 4:54 AM
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Stephanie, I love you so much. Thank you for sharing all of this with me - and everyone. I'm happy for you that Thanksgiving was a chance to see just how much your family loves and supports you. I hope you know that your network is strong and deep.
My favorite aspect of your writing here is that you can expose your deepest fears and articulate your emotions clearly while always keeping your cleverness and silly humor.
Big hugs!
My sweet, sweet daughter.
You continue to amaze me and keep me in awe. My strength and that of those around you comes directly from you. Your strength and courage is infectious. You are a "warrior" with great stamina. Yes, you are loved by all who cross your path because of who you are on the inside, as well as the outside. We will beat this together with dignity and fortitude. Survivors are "warriors".
Love,Mom
I knew you'd rock Turkey Day! You're amazing Steph. We all love you so much and wish we could take all this away, but like your mom said, you're a warrior! I saw a tshirt the other day, it said "Cancer, you picked the WRONG broad"!! love you xoxo
Lesley
PS: Love the pic Jack picked for me.
Hi Stephanie, I just recieved your Mom and Dad's Christmas card and I want and need you to know that you are in our prayers and that we love you so much. Stephanie you will beat this, you are incredibly strong and just because we are 3000 miles away you are still in our hearts every day, every hour and every minute we miss you so very much. Anything you need please call us and we will be there for you, you can count on that. With all of our love, Linda, Aunt Bev and Uncle Louie
Stephanie,
I have thought about you daily since I saw you on Christmas night. You are so strong and positive. I'm sorry you have had to join this club of warriors! The good news is that we are all survivors. Look forward to the first week with no appointments. Your life will be normal again.
Love and Strength,
Roxanne
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